A daughter's shock as a trip to buy bread ends her father's life

A daughter's shock as a trip to buy bread ends her father's life

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Victor Gubarev stepped out to buy bread when he was killed by a fragment from a shell that landed in front of his apartment block in Kharkiv on Monday, minutes before his daughter arrived to find an ambulance crew standing over his body.

Crew members had to hold Yana Bachek back as they carried her father's body away following the blasts that hit the Soviet-era apartment complex where they live.

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Yana Bachek mourns on the arms of a first responders.

An English teacher, she said she had been preparing an online lesson in the kitchen of her one-bedroom apartment, close by her parents' flat, when the shelling started.

"I remember just the explosion," she said. "I just returned from shopping and crazy explosions, noise."

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Bachek sits in her family's apartment.

Immediately her mother, Lyubov, called, voice trembling, and said her father had gone to buy bread and was still outside. Her partner, Yevgeniy, stopped her from rushing out straight away in case there were follow-up strikes, as there were, seconds later.

"I began to call him and there was no answer," she said.

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Bachek is consoled by her partner Yevgeniy Vlasenko and a first responder as medical workers retrieve the body of her father.

When she pulled on her coat and went out a few minutes later, her anguished reaction to the sight of her father's body was caught by photographers who had arrived with the ambulances, shortly after the blasts.

"I am sorry. I want to forget it. The picture. The one picture I saw him," Bachek said.

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Bachek is consoled by her partner Vlasenko as she mourns over the body of her father.

Along with the mass graves of Bucha near Kyiv or the destruction of the port city of Mariupol, the indiscriminate shelling of cities like Kharkiv has come to symbolize what the Kremlin has called its "special military operation" in Ukraine.

Russia says its incursion is intended to demilitarise and "denazify" Ukraine. Kyiv and its Western allies reject that as a false pretext for war.

Russia denies targeting civilians and rejects what Ukraine says is evidence of atrocities, saying Ukraine has staged them to undermine peace talks.

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Medical workers and first responders retrieve the body of Victor Gubarev.

FAMILY PHOTOS

Gubarev's death was one of at least three on Monday in Kharkiv, which has been subjected to near-daily bombardment since Russia launched its invasion on Feb. 24.

A former driver who started working at the age of 16 and rose to become a vehicle fleet manager for the oil company Gazprom, the 79-year-old had been reluctant to leave because of health problems he and his wife suffered.

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Bachek holds a photo she took of her mother Luybov Gubareva and her father Victor Gubarev.

Sitting in her kitchen, occasionally fighting back tears, Bachek, their only child, shared family photos showing her father with an Elvis-style quiff on holidays by the Black Sea, beaming at Lyubov or swinging his granddaughter playfully in a shopping bag.

She described growing up in a middle-class family without a lot of money in late Soviet Ukraine, studying hard at school with her mother, a piano teacher who enjoyed concerts and theatre and her father who liked tinkering with cars and joking around with his daughter.

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A crater made by the shell that killed Gubarev.

"In his normal life, even in war, he tried to smile, to joke, to support us. He said to us: 'You are my girls, my heroes'," she said.

Now she waits until her father can be buried but here too the war has imposed an additional agony as the sheer number of dead has grown and normal funerals have become impossible.

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Bachek and her partner Vlasenko stand at the entrance of their apartment block.

"It's not like we used to do - cemetery, grave, a special place where I can be separate from other people, to be calm, to speak, to cry, to put out the Easter cake," she said, referring to a Ukrainian memorial custom.

While the family waits for news, the loaf of bread Gubarev went out to buy remains, still in its plastic wrapper, on a table in the hallway, where she touches it briefly each time she goes to the door.

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The bread that Gubarev was carrying when he was killed.

"The bread was in blood," she said. "Now I can't keep it in my hands, but I want to because it is a piece of my dad. It was the last thing he had in his hands."

(Photo Editing Kezia Levitas; Text Editing Robert Birsel; Layout Kezia Levitas)